"My husband and I were at a breaking point and weren't sure if there was anything that could save our marriage. We had tried several marriage counselors who helped in the moment but never seemed to have an effect on us once we were home and back in our daily routines.
We were referred to Brian & Mesia's program and decided to try it because we love each other too much to give up without trying everything we possibly could. I can't begin to tell you how much their approach impacted not just my marriage but me personally.
We learned about our individual needs and we both realized that what we TRULY needed wasn't much when we got down to it. We both felt like surely there had to be more to it, but once we implemented it, we realized that it really was that simple. My husband told me what he needed from me and it wasn't what I would have guessed, but sure enough, as soon as I started doing those few things he was a completely different person and it turned our relationship around. He did the same for me and suddenly it was like we were newlyweds again. We are so in love and can't get enough of each other!
We learned about our true core identities and how to manifest them in our relationship. We both learned how the other's brain works and were able to better understand why we both acted and reacted the way we did. It became clear that no one is at fault for anything that happened, it was just how it our brains worked under the circumstances. That made it much easier to see where the other person was coming from, but it also made me FINALLY feel understood for the first time.
My husband has learned all about the different components to his masculinity and now they manifest themselves in the form of the ideal man, where one of his central attributes is to make sure me and our family is protected and provided for physically and emotionally.
In the past when I was starting to get frustrated or feel uncertain, I would have to formulate a conversation in my head and then work up the courage to approach him about it, and it wasn't always well received. Now when I start feeling that way, which is far less often, he can sense a shift in me and will come home with flowers and all the right words to make me feel loved, acknowledged, and appreciated.
It's a relief to finally feel like we're in a good place with our communication, that we can just speak openly about what we need and want without worrying about judgment or repercussions.
I don't know where we would be without Brian & Mesia's program. We owe all the success of our marriage to their insight and wisdom.
I would absolutely recommend their program to anyone who wants to transform their relationship."
- E G.